敬酒不吃吃罚酒 [ jìng jiǔ bù chī chī fá jiǔ ]

基本释义

比喻好好地劝说不听，用强迫的手段却接受了。

英文翻译

to refuse a toast only to be forced to drink a forfeit; fig. to hesitate to do sth until forced to do even more